how do you set up opengl on windows me
All Windows versions since Windows95 support OpenGL just fine.
This is what you have to do:
If you are using an Nvidia or ATI based card just download the latest reference driver for your OS and your are all set.
If you are using a different display adapter (i.e. SIS) you are at the mercy of the manufacturer to deliver OpenGL support.
If they dont support OpenGL you are out of luck, sorry.